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Tuesday, November 1, 2022

Page 1... Communication/ Love Language... Day 1


🎶All you gotta do is walk away and pass me by
Don't acknowledge my smile when I try to say hello to you..Butterflies... Michael Jackson
                           "Let's Talk About It"
Did you know that butterflies represent  change, transformation, comfort, hope, and positivity? Interesting uh? Something so small and beautiful, have the ability to speak such strong language... A language that attacks a persons bad attitude and places a smile of serenity on the faced of many.  Now, I know some of you are probably saying why is she discussing butterflies in the month of November. Well, I love, love butterflies. I think they are exceedingly beautiful. Mere words can't express the unspeakable beauty they give off whenever in your presence.

Although they can't speak verbally, their appearances goes beyond words. When was the last time you communicated with someone without verbally speaking? Were your unspoken words pleasant or were they unkind? Do you believe the best solutiion to a any situation is best resolved by way of communication? 

Oftentimes we suffer from lack of communication. We rather shut down and stay in our own head instead of talking through the situation at hand. I am a divorced woman and one of the main reasons for my relationship ending was due to lack of communication. Whenever an incident would arise, instead of talking, we would sit in silence, leaving the doors of each other's minds open to come up with our own conclusion of the situation. Please don't misunderstand me, we both played the stubborn role. Neither of us wanted to be wrong,  which lead to other things that caused other problems, which placed me here living the single life.(single/not lonely)... This was all due to lack of communication.

I am not a love expert, but what I do know is this... if you keep the line of communication open with your spouse, lover, friend, etc, chances are you will build a stronger, healthier relationship. With open communication you can feel butterflies inside/out, In season and out of season. You learn to become each other's best friend, ride or die,  sugar and spice...
 On the flip side... Without communication you will experience anger, frustration, pride, and an overworked brain all deriving from slack communication.
                            Ephesians 4:26
But there is a solution... " just sit yourself down and talk about it.... 🎶Let's staighten it out...

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*Communication is an expression of love
...and as always
Peace and Blessings 😉

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great day great new month I like that communication is an expression of love so the more we communicate the more we love I'm going to keep that in mind today thank you great day

Anonymous said...

This is so true. My husband and I have experienced communication issues in our marriage because I like to talk things out but he doesn't. He's gotten better. I like the butterfly analogy!! Enjoy your day!!

Anonymous said...

The words we share tells the story from within

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