Depression...

Greetings Everyone....

🎶"Sometimes I feel that we try to make each other sad, I don't know why,the things we do,how we make each feel so bad" ....

         We are One... Maze featuring Frankie Beverly 

Have you noticed any changes in someone that you have known for a while? Maybe they are not a jolly as they once was. Their attitudes are more negative than usual. They have no desire to improve? Well, if so, statics say that these type of symptoms are signs of someone experiencing depression. 

Yes, depression is real. Although many may not want   to acknowledge it, it is very much real. Some believe  that it doesn't affect their culture. WRONG THINKING... BELIEVE me when I  say this... Depression has no respect of culture, gender, age, or spiritual beliefs. It will visit your stable mind at any given time. Its not something that we can prepare for, nono, it's something that creeps in and takes a seat in our thoughts which eventually transforms our normal behaviors. It oftentimes comes durng our most challenging moments. Ex... Loss of loved one, loss of employment, loss of relationship, and the list goes on. It leaves one with many  questions, but no real solutions. In some cases it may cause some to question his/her existence.

Now for those of us that disagree, all I will say is what my grandmother use to always say... "Keep living and life will introduce you to many functional/dysfunctional lessons".... Remember this...

Take whatever means are necessary to restore the one thing needed in earth...YOU...

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

3-21-23... " Not Today"

Hello Everyone...

ALWAYS REMEMBER... IT'S UP TO YOU...

ANY Negative energy that comes your way(mentally/physically), simply look/speak these words... "NOT TODAY" as you walk/think those thoughts away...

REMEMBER TO PURSUE a more productive/sain atmosphere in every aspect of Life. Afterall, this gift (life) was given so that you/I would become a Better-Proactive-Uniquely-Designed individual.

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...and as always

Peace and Blessings 😉

March 13th..... CELEBRATE

Great Morning to Everyone...

Hey its the best day of the year... Why?

34 years ago I was blessed with

 "my WORLD'S BEST SON" 

Yes today is Brandon Ladlle Little birthday 🎉🎉🎉...

Help him celebrate by sending a shout out of birthday wishes. He has social media channels,so please, if you can, show him some love.... 

Have a Marvelous Monday...

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRANDON LADLLE LITTLE 🎉🎉🎉

3/9.... Winners... Celebrate

GREAT MORNING EVERYONE... 

ITS TRANSFORMING THURSDAY...

🎶"all I do is win, win, win...DJ Kahled

                We have winners...YAYYAYYAY!!!!!!

THANK YOU FOR PARTICIPATING IN THE GIVEAWAY.

The first giveaway was based on me reaching 100 subscribers on YouTube. Yes, I reached 100 and beyond... Aint that good news? And with that being said... Congratulations goes out to ..Lisa Carney... Lisa was the winner selected for helping me reach 100 SUBSCRIBERS on YouTube... Thank you... Lisa will be receiving a 25$ Amazon Gift Card. Congratulations Lisa!!!!!!! WHOOP WHOOP!!!!

Next was the challenge giveaway. Man, y'all was deep. Some of y'all cheated by using Google Assistant. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well, when you cheat, you can't win, nevertheless, I had a winner... Yes indeed... She was straight with her answer. She was not deep. She kept it simple... The questions were...

Who gave you your first gift?

Answer: GOD... Yes, your first gift came from God by way of giving each of us LIFE...

The second question was...

Peter Piper picked a peck of pickles. How many pickles did Peter Piper pick?

Answer: He picked a peck... Simple

O my God, some gave me answers in the form of gallons, quarts, and none... Wrong answer... Peter Piper picked a PECK of pickles ... Congratulations goes out to Barbara Peterson... You are the winner of a 50$ gift card... WHOOP!!! WHOOP!!!

Come on everyone help me celebrate these two winners of the second give away. Thank you for participating in the challenge. There will be another giveway in the near future. Hopefully you will win!!!!

Have a Terrific Transforming Thursday

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

3/8... Challenge Giveaway Day...

OOOOOOO.... CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY DAY.....

🎶 "EVERYBODY, EVERYBODY LET'S GET INTO IT...

LET'S GET IT STARTED IN HERE"... BLACK EYE PEA

HAPPY WEDNESDAY MORNING EVERYONE...

Rules...

Must answer question(s) correctly

Leave answers in comment section via blog site or YouTube channel... (Let's Talk About It with Valerie)

Attach email address with answer(s)

EMAIL must be valid

Deadline... 3/8/23 by 1800...(6pm)

Challenge Giveaway Questions...

1.Who gave you your first gift?

2.Peter piper picked a peck of pickles how many pickles did Peter Piper pick?

EVERYBODY, EVERYBODY LET'S GET INTO IT...

LET'S GET IT STARTED IN HERE"... Happy Guessing 

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

3/7... Narcissism... Manipulation

Great Morning Everyone.. 

                   Tell God "Thank You"

🎶"An angels smile is what you sell, you promise me heaven, but you give me hell... You give love a bad name... Bon Jovi...

Manipulation...

 Someone once said to me "saying no can also be manipulative". Ummm... I think when that statement is being used it is truly a sign of someone trying to manipulate you... Reverse psychology... What to you think?

Being able to say no is not a bad thing. It is actually healthy. Its a word in the Webster Dictionary that should be used more often when it comes to dealing with a narcissist partner.. They are very MANIPULATIVE... 

Oftentimes we feel bad saying no because we don't want to offend annyone. However, whenever we go along with others knowing we shouldn't, is actually disrespectful to ourselves. Whenever temper tantrums are displayed after giving a response that was not expected, be ware... This is a behavior that is used called  "Manipulation Game". Its a form used to try to make you feel guilty and possibly get  you to reconsider your response in give into what they want. Don't do it ...  Stand your ground. Whatever response you give, be strong/courageous enough to hold firm regardless of the other person's behavior. 

Answer this question...

If you were in need, would the narcissistic person be there for you? Stand your Ground...

Remember This...

.                      Have a wonderful day 😘

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

3/6.... Narcissism ... Empathy

Happy New Week Everyone...

       CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY WEEK....

🎶"I wanna thank you Heavenly Father for shining you light on me and giving me your everlating love"... 

                                  Tony Terry 

        Hopefully everyone had a wonderful weekend... 

So, when dealing with a narcissistic partner another trait/behavior that may be displayed is lack of sympathy/empathy. If it is not something that they are experiencing, they really don't care. If you are sick or experiencing tragedy in your family, it means nothing to them. Their only conern is themselves .

If it doesn't benefit them, just know that you are not important. I experienced this once and believe me, it was very hurtful. To actually go through what I went through, it only by the grace of God that I am here with my right mind. It took 7 years for me to realize that the partner I was with was a narcissist. It took me being hospitalized for 7 days due to stress from this person to realize that my health  and my son's health was more important than catering to the needs of someone else.

 So, when I speak on certain topics, its not to only be speaking. My testimonials moments are to hopefully help others identify with maybe similar behaviors, and hopefully shed light in making a conscious decision to do better. If I can reach 1 person, then my labor has not been in vain.

Remember this...

Have a Marvelous Monday... Share yor testimony. You never know who is listening for a way of escape.

......... Don't forget......... CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY WEEK

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

March 2... Narcissism/ They Are Never Wrong...

Greetings Everyone...

🎵" I don't care whose wrong or right, I don't wanna       fight no more...its time for letting go"         

                                  Tina Turner

How many of us know at least one person who (in the eyes) are never wrong. Even if the word truth smacks them in the face and repeatedly say "wrong", they will never admit that they are wrong. Well, I can honestly say that I knew someone like that, and believe, thats a dangerous person.

That's a very dangerous person... The mere fact that they see others as being wrong oppose to them wrong. Its like they have shut the world out and created a world that surrounds only themselves. 

Prime example...

                                      ⚡ Dangerous 

Before they admit/confess that they are wrong, they will develop an attitude with the other person to avoid admitting that they're wrong. And if one is not careful, one could easily question themselves. Again I say, that's a very dangerous person.

Understand 

Learning to accept the fact that we are not above being corrected is a step towards maturity. Everyone living has been/done wrong at some point in there lives. Therefore, we must take into great consideration that as long as we are living in am imperfect world, we are subject to error. And its ok.. Being wrong does not make us bad people, it merely makes us human.

Let us Begin to own up to our mistakes/untruths. Afterall, admittance of wrong doing of our failures is the reason Christ died for our sins. Think about it...

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

3/1... Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

Greetings Everyone...

🎵"Celebration time come on. Let's Celebrate"😀

                           Kool and the Gang

It is WONDERFUL WEDNESDAY....

                              CONGRATULATIONS

ON LAST WEEK WE DISCUSSED CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM... DURING THE DISCUSSION, I PURPOSELY USED THE WORD "CORRECTIVE" CRITICISM INSTEAD OF "CONSTRUCTIVE". I DID THIS BECAUSE I WANTED TO SEE IF ANYONE WOULD REALIZE IT AND CORRECT ME WITH THE PROPER WORD. SURE ENOUGH, SOMEONE DID... HOTDOGYAY!!!  THAT NOT ONLY MADE ME HAPPY BUT THE WINNER WAS CONTACTED AND SHE WAS GIVEN A GIFT OF LOVE!!  SHE WAS VERY SUPRISED AND APPRECIATIVE OF THE GIFT....AINT THAT GOOD NEWS... CELEBRATE 🥳🥂 

Are you interested in winning a LOVE GIFT? If so, READ ON...

 Beginning March 8, 2023 , there will be a CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY...  What's a challenge giveway? Its a little fun activity as well as think . Its my way of saying "thank you for your time in reading or watching my channel each day.Your support means so much to me.

 CHALLENGE  GIVEAWAY 

Lisred below is the description 

                               

   Description...

EVERYONE is advised to pay close attention to what is being discussed on the day of CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY I will say these words "Challenge Giveaway Day". This means that at some point during the discussion that day, I may either ask a question or make a incorrect statement etc. You will be contacted via email if you are the winner of the CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

It's just that simple...

Rules

*You are to guess the answer and post it in the comment section via blog...0830letstalk.blogspot.com or via YouTube channel ...

 Lets Talk About It with Valerie...

*Your MUST answer correctly(no compromising)

*Provide only answers pertaining to discussion/question...

         *** Limit 15 words...

*You must be willing to provide your email info

**For contacting you if you are the winner)

***Please don't use multiple contact information.. 

                      Email address only

**** One email per comment (correct answer)

I will respond to you via email if you are the winner of the CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

* You can only win once out of the month

**** You will be notified via email provided if you are  selected as the Challenge Giveaway Winner.

Are you interested? If so, stay tuned to hear the famous words CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY... Have a wonderful Wednesday 😁

***Save the date... Starting March 8 2023

Let's have fun.. Let's think... Let's show love...

Let's play CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉