February 14... Learning Love/ Manipulation

Greetings Everyone...

                    Happy Valentine's Day😘❤️

🎶"I'm in love, yes I am... My friends wonder whats come over me, I'm as happy as any girl could be"...        Queen of Soul.......Aretha Franklin 

It's that time of the year where we express our tokens of love towards our special someone, in our unique way. Whether it be roses, breakfast in bed, chocolates, with the teddy bear, ( we can't give chocolates without a teddy bear), a nice quiet evening at home with candles, nice dinner, and soft music playing in the background. Whatever way you decide to express love, remember to enjoy the moment...

Previously we discussed acceptance of others and how it is important that we accept others for who they are, where they are, at that particular place in their lives.

Today in "learning love", I want to discuss the difference in not getting love confused with manipulation. Love is patient, love is kind, love is understanding. Even when we don't receive the response that we were expecting, love always wins.. Being able to respond differently than expected is love also. 

Oftentimes when I was growing up, I would hear others say "if you love me, you will do this or that for me" Negative... That's not love, thats manipulation. 

Love has no restrictions/stipulations. Either you accept the respone or you don't, but it doesn't change the fact on whether or not that person loves you. Love is not always "YES". Nono... Love is also "NO"  Think about it,  if everything  was yes, what would "free will" represent? Understand, everyone's love language is not the same, but in the end, it is still love.

Love is kind not manipulated... Remember that...

Happy Valentine's Day again😘😘

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉