Life be Life-ing...

"Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're getting" 

Forrest Gump

Greetings...

I hope that all is well with each of you. Me, ... I am doing all I can to cope with this thing called life..

 Oftentimes we are asked the questions what's the big deal to life? What makes up life? Is it something that we the people have totally forgotten how to embrace?

                  Ummmm 

Is it possible for us agree to diagree and still remain cordial? Do we always have to be right in order to remain family, friends, coworkers, spouse, etc. Are we ( individually) entitled to our own opinions? 

   ...  Perhaps ... Maybe ...

         ABSOLUTELY 

 Everyone is entitled to their own opinion...

If there is one thing I have learned during this election,  regardless of the party, it is soley based upon one's opinion...

While some may agree with one thing, others may disagree, but tell me ... does it make either of us right or wrong? 

 Finding a common ground to "agree to disagree" can sometimes be used as peace in moving forward... 

      ...IT is what it IS...

 WE the people were created to disagree. "No two people are alike..." Each of us has been given a destiny to life,  but none of us was given the FINAL destination...

               AGREED

 Closing Remarks... 

What works for one may not work for the next individual and guess what...

              ITS OKAY

... we are all in this thing called LIFE together.

        Think about it...

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May 17... From Minor to Major

Greetings Everyone...

🎶" Glow of Love"... Change feat. Luther Vandross

Its Wonderful Wednesday!!

 Just want to leave you guys with a little nugget to ponder on today...

Never allow a bad situation to cause  the worst to come out of you. Instead, look at the bad situation with the mentality of it only being a "minor setback" of a "major set up" in a positive direction...

.               Have a very productive day 😀

          Remember the best is yet to come 😉

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May 15... Silence is Golden

Greetings Everyone...

🎶"Do you love what you feel" Rufus Chaka Khan 

 In growing older/wiser, I have realized... Everyone will not celebrate your good news with you. Sure there are some that will celebrate and encourage you to continue to move forward. They are people that love to see others achieve...

On the other hand, there are those that will not celebrate with you and will in some way try to make you feel as though your good news is not worth celebrating. They are known to have a jealous spirit.

May I  strongly suggest to you that you keep your business to yourself  and 

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Have  Marvelous Monday. Keep smiling knowing that the best is yet to come. 

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May 10... Wednesday Gem

🎶"as long as you keep your head to the sky, you can win"... Optimistic... Sounds of Blackness

Greetings Everyone...

Its Wonderful Wednesday for some and hump day for others... Just want to leave you guys with a couple of nuggets to ponder on today.

As we journey through this gift off life, we are presented with 3 choices... And with these 3 choices there are consequences...

1. If we choose to look down on life, we will become oppressed....

2. If we choose to look around and get entangled with our surroundings when relating to the uneasy concerns of the world, we will become depressed...

3. However, if we choose to look up,  and stand firm on our faith, we will find/ be at rest.

The choice is ours to make. Remember...

.                                   Think about it 😉

Have a wonderful day. Keep smiling knowing that the best is yet to come...

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May 3... Ladies, Know your worth

"Everyone will not embrace your value, but that doesn't mean you should go and change your price"

                        Stephan Speaks 

                  Happy Wedneda6        

Searching for love online can be very challenging. One must be very careful. If the social media associate never wants or make excuses as to why the two you can't video chat, exit stage left... If they ask for money... RUN... You are being set up only to be gamed ..

For every Queen, there lies a king... Take the single life and enjoy life. Go thru the process ...  

Be true to yourself... Be anxious for nothing, just embrace the process...

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May 1, 2023... Gentlemen... Embrace your Value

Happy New Month/Week...

"Everyone will not embrace your value, but that doesn't mean you have to go and change your price"...

                             Stephan Speaks

Thats a very strong yet true statement. 

Realizing that everyone does not see us the way see ourselves could spare us many disappointments.

Gentlemen...

Just because she looks, walks, talks, and behave like a woman, doesn't always mean that she's your woman. Understand every pretty face and nice physique does not make a woman a woman. If she has the mindset of valuing herself, nine times out of ten, she knows the true meaning of "value"  therefore she will know how to respect, and embrace you. 

Now on the other hand, if she doesn't, exit stage left... Why, because if prolonged, you will eventually lose sight of yourself and begin to negotiate your value which will eventually cause you to exchange your peace for unwanted stress... Think about it 🤔

Never settle just because she wears the title of a woman... Realize 

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Wednesday... Lets Just Take a deep Breath...

🎶"You see war is not the answer, for only love can conquer hate"... What's going On...Marvin Gaye

Greetings Everyone... Got a few questions that I would love your take on the discussion... Here goes...

Can somebody tell me what's going on? Have we the people became so angey and blind to the reality that we are in the midst of a civil war? We are fighting, killing and hating more on each other daily opposed to being our brothers keeper. Where is the love? 

The photo above is the photo of a 16 year old young man that was shot twice because he was at the wrong home address. He was there to pick up his brothers, but instead he was shot. Really... Please explain the justification for this...

What actually transpired to cause the man to shot Ralph Yarl. A ciirizen that looked like him. The only difference between the two were one had a darker skin tone, and the age. One was 84 and the other was 16... 

7ú

 Are we going to ever going to graduate from the color of someone's skin and  their gender?

Can we just take a couple of steps back and look at the entire picture. Not only are we huting the victim, but we are also hurting the families of the victim (s). Oh yeah, and lets not forget that we are causing ourselves pain mentally... Surely, we have some form of compassion for others and ourselves.

There's no way one can say that they have zero per cent  compassion within themselves."If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make the change"... Michael Jackson 

Let's begin to pursue happiness? Let's remember to...

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Terrific Tuesday... RESPECT

🎶"RESPECT find out what it means to me"

                    Aretha Franklin

Greetings Everyone....

So, I recieved a video on yesterday concerning a student and a teacher havin a little brawl.

 This all steamed from a student whose phone was taken from her.  The student became angry and took action  into taking the phone from the teacher.

 Well, one thing led to another. Needless to say it got out of control.

 The student and the teacher are on the floor. The teacher has managed to pinn the student down and ask a student to go get a teacher. 

 Well, no one moved right away, instead they chose to make a video!!! Really!!! Are you serious? Have we become soo angry and desperate for 25 seconds of fame that instead of getting help, we rather record and see how many views, likes, and shares we receive instead of doing the right thing?...

During my era, RESPECT was a rule. Where has it gone? Have we become a people of hate that we are no longer concerned about "being our brothers keeper"? This really hurts. I mean really hurt 🤕

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April 17... Let's Pray

Greetings Everyone...

🎶Give me you, everything else can wait...

                        Juanita Bynum

On last week we discussed gun violence and how important that we the people stand up and fight against the will of others that freely purchase/ use weapons to cause danger to others.

With this , there was a viewer that stated that we should just pray to God and for  each other. Now don't misunderstand I am a woman of prayer. I am not stating by no means that we dont need to pray, but in the process of praying we need to come together and make our voices heard. Prayer is like faith... Whenever we seek to do or achieve something, we pray, and once we pray , we believe, and when believing , we put faith into works. Faith is believing. Prayer is believing. Therefore, we must pray but along with prayer we must use faith which requires action. Faith without works is dead... We must do something along with the prayers.

Oftentimes we say "we are going to wait on God" . Waiting on God does not mean just sitting still. It means trusting and serving God for deliverance of our prayers being petitioned, while doing something...

                           Think about it...

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Rampage...

Greetings everyone...

🎶" We've got to find a way to bring some understanding here today"...

 What's Going On... Marvin Gaye

Just recently in the state of NC a law was passed that citizens no longer need a permit to purchase a handgun. Yes, we are still required to have a background check, but still... The mere fact that anyone within the required age limit has permission to purchase a weapon... What's going on?

Have we not seen the severity's of what happens when a deadly weapon is placed in the hands of someone that has a moment of anger? When and how can this law be reversed? There are too many of our loved ones being killed due to gun violence.

 Case and point... Just a week ago, here in NC a 14 year old student carried a gun to school in his backpack. He never fired the weapon intentionally, but while on the bus going home, the gun went off and injured another student. My questions are...#1, why does a 14 old have possession of a handgun on school premises, and #2... what changes are we willing to change and protect our citizens? Truly it is high time for us to come together and possibly get a grip on these types of tragedies.

Everyday we learn of tragedies occuring in the US.How many more tragedies must occur before we begin to make changes a thing of our future...

Thin about it and then Let's Talk About It...

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April 12

Greetings Everyone...

🎶The world want get no better, if we just let it be"

                               Teddy Pendegrass 

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Alvinis the winner of this month Challenge Giveaway!!!! Let's celebrate with Alvin Boyd 🥂🎉🎉🎉

Well, we are again feeling sorrowful. Another shooting has taken place. My my my. Will this ever end or is this the beginning of the end.

Just the orher day, five people lost their lives by the hands of someone that became angry over possible termination from  his job. Truly, we must begin to take a stand and begin to exercise our rights as citizens. Gun violence is on a rampage.... Everyday we learn of someone dearh caused by gun violence.

As Teddy Pendegrass says "the world won't get no better if we just let it be, we've got to change it both you and me". S Very true... There's confusion in Russia, China, Ukraine, Israel, and distraction from the past president. When is enough, Enough?

Sadly enough...

We have several family members experiencing many forms of emotional mindsets. Some are sad, angry, confused, crying, and the list goes on. There are no amount of words that can describe the grief each individual family member is experiencing. Not only for the victims family, but also the family members of the shooter. They too are  hurting deeply due to the missing of a son, brother, coworker, best friend, and so fort. At the end of the day, regardless of what the side of the fence we are on. Pain is pain ...

So, as we continue to pray for the victims family members, let's also pray for the family members of the shooter... 

Change must begin... And this kind change begins with us. Have a wonderful, safe Wednesday....

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April 10... Challenge Giveaway

Greetings Everyone...

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April ... Forgiveness

🎶"I'm only human, dont ask me for to much too fast"

                                 Jeffrey Osborne 

Greetings everyone and welcome to Let's Talk About It with Valerie where we discuss real talk, real issues, pertaining to everyday life. 

Previously we open up the discussion concerning redefining life and accessing the resurrecting power that lives within each of us. So with that being said I want to just talk briefly about how we can begin the journey. 

 ... Quick question: has there ever been a time in your life when you tapped out of you? I mean let's just be honest,  have you ever not liked you at some point in your life? Now for those of you that can honestly say you never have, give yourself a round of applause and remind yourself that although it sounds good, its not true. Why do I say that... Its simple... Whether it was in our physical or a choice that wasn't pleasant, it was a moments where we were not fully tapped into ourselves. And that's cool.  As Jeffrey Osborne says in his  melody.. "I'm only human so don't ask me for too much too fast"...

 As long as we live here in Earth we will at some point   dislike ourselves due to the choices that we may decide to make on this journey of life... My only suggestion to us is that we don't get stuck. When you realize that you made a bad choice, by all means learn from it and continue to move forward. That's another part of learning how to love yourself. Learning to appreciate mistakes and still be productive by simply moving forward. And with all that being said I want you to continue to operate in your resurrecting power and remind yourself daily of this thought... if not now, then when ?

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April 3... Depression Cont...

Greetings Everyone...

🎶"We are family, I got all my sisters with me"

            We Are Family... Sister Sledge

Well, we are approaching the closing of another month... WOW....

Today I want to continue discussing depression and how it may affect others. Again I say, depression is real.

As much as many of us may not want to accept it, the reality is that it is real. 

How do I know? Been there and believe me, its not something that is easily shaken. It takes time and a lot of will power to overcome something as serious as this. I can recall a time when I was in a session with other peers and someone stated that their life would be better if they were dead... My instant response was"how can you possibly know that your life will be better if you were dead"?... Have you died before? Crazy question, but legit...  The individual looked at me and said these words, "I died 5 years ago mentally, but today, your question, has made me realize that dead people don't know anything and since I'm not dead I can do things differently by changing my thoughts ".... We celebrated!!!

GLORY!!! Hallelujah... That was and still is a refreshing moment in time.

We are still in contact with each other. The individual has been married for 5 years, they have 2 children, and  their own Mental Health Organization. To God Be the Glory!!! 

Sometimes all it takes is a simple crazy question to persuade others to reconsider their views on certain things on the journey called LIFE...

                                  Enough said...

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Depression...

Greetings Everyone....

🎶"Sometimes I feel that we try to make each other sad, I don't know why,the things we do,how we make each feel so bad" ....

         We are One... Maze featuring Frankie Beverly 

Have you noticed any changes in someone that you have known for a while? Maybe they are not a jolly as they once was. Their attitudes are more negative than usual. They have no desire to improve? Well, if so, statics say that these type of symptoms are signs of someone experiencing depression. 

Yes, depression is real. Although many may not want   to acknowledge it, it is very much real. Some believe  that it doesn't affect their culture. WRONG THINKING... BELIEVE me when I  say this... Depression has no respect of culture, gender, age, or spiritual beliefs. It will visit your stable mind at any given time. Its not something that we can prepare for, nono, it's something that creeps in and takes a seat in our thoughts which eventually transforms our normal behaviors. It oftentimes comes durng our most challenging moments. Ex... Loss of loved one, loss of employment, loss of relationship, and the list goes on. It leaves one with many  questions, but no real solutions. In some cases it may cause some to question his/her existence.

Now for those of us that disagree, all I will say is what my grandmother use to always say... "Keep living and life will introduce you to many functional/dysfunctional lessons".... Remember this...

Take whatever means are necessary to restore the one thing needed in earth...YOU...

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3-21-23... " Not Today"

Hello Everyone...

ALWAYS REMEMBER... IT'S UP TO YOU...

ANY Negative energy that comes your way(mentally/physically), simply look/speak these words... "NOT TODAY" as you walk/think those thoughts away...

REMEMBER TO PURSUE a more productive/sain atmosphere in every aspect of Life. Afterall, this gift (life) was given so that you/I would become a Better-Proactive-Uniquely-Designed individual.

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March 13th..... CELEBRATE

Great Morning to Everyone...

Hey its the best day of the year... Why?

34 years ago I was blessed with

 "my WORLD'S BEST SON" 

Yes today is Brandon Ladlle Little birthday 🎉🎉🎉...

Help him celebrate by sending a shout out of birthday wishes. He has social media channels,so please, if you can, show him some love.... 

Have a Marvelous Monday...

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRANDON LADLLE LITTLE 🎉🎉🎉

3/9.... Winners... Celebrate

GREAT MORNING EVERYONE... 

ITS TRANSFORMING THURSDAY...

🎶"all I do is win, win, win...DJ Kahled

                We have winners...YAYYAYYAY!!!!!!

THANK YOU FOR PARTICIPATING IN THE GIVEAWAY.

The first giveaway was based on me reaching 100 subscribers on YouTube. Yes, I reached 100 and beyond... Aint that good news? And with that being said... Congratulations goes out to ..Lisa Carney... Lisa was the winner selected for helping me reach 100 SUBSCRIBERS on YouTube... Thank you... Lisa will be receiving a 25$ Amazon Gift Card. Congratulations Lisa!!!!!!! WHOOP WHOOP!!!!

Next was the challenge giveaway. Man, y'all was deep. Some of y'all cheated by using Google Assistant. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well, when you cheat, you can't win, nevertheless, I had a winner... Yes indeed... She was straight with her answer. She was not deep. She kept it simple... The questions were...

Who gave you your first gift?

Answer: GOD... Yes, your first gift came from God by way of giving each of us LIFE...

The second question was...

Peter Piper picked a peck of pickles. How many pickles did Peter Piper pick?

Answer: He picked a peck... Simple

O my God, some gave me answers in the form of gallons, quarts, and none... Wrong answer... Peter Piper picked a PECK of pickles ... Congratulations goes out to Barbara Peterson... You are the winner of a 50$ gift card... WHOOP!!! WHOOP!!!

Come on everyone help me celebrate these two winners of the second give away. Thank you for participating in the challenge. There will be another giveway in the near future. Hopefully you will win!!!!

Have a Terrific Transforming Thursday

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3/8... Challenge Giveaway Day...

OOOOOOO.... CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY DAY.....

🎶 "EVERYBODY, EVERYBODY LET'S GET INTO IT...

LET'S GET IT STARTED IN HERE"... BLACK EYE PEA

HAPPY WEDNESDAY MORNING EVERYONE...

Rules...

Must answer question(s) correctly

Leave answers in comment section via blog site or YouTube channel... (Let's Talk About It with Valerie)

Attach email address with answer(s)

EMAIL must be valid

Deadline... 3/8/23 by 1800...(6pm)

Challenge Giveaway Questions...

1.Who gave you your first gift?

2.Peter piper picked a peck of pickles how many pickles did Peter Piper pick?

EVERYBODY, EVERYBODY LET'S GET INTO IT...

LET'S GET IT STARTED IN HERE"... Happy Guessing 

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3/7... Narcissism... Manipulation

Great Morning Everyone.. 

                   Tell God "Thank You"

🎶"An angels smile is what you sell, you promise me heaven, but you give me hell... You give love a bad name... Bon Jovi...

Manipulation...

 Someone once said to me "saying no can also be manipulative". Ummm... I think when that statement is being used it is truly a sign of someone trying to manipulate you... Reverse psychology... What to you think?

Being able to say no is not a bad thing. It is actually healthy. Its a word in the Webster Dictionary that should be used more often when it comes to dealing with a narcissist partner.. They are very MANIPULATIVE... 

Oftentimes we feel bad saying no because we don't want to offend annyone. However, whenever we go along with others knowing we shouldn't, is actually disrespectful to ourselves. Whenever temper tantrums are displayed after giving a response that was not expected, be ware... This is a behavior that is used called  "Manipulation Game". Its a form used to try to make you feel guilty and possibly get  you to reconsider your response in give into what they want. Don't do it ...  Stand your ground. Whatever response you give, be strong/courageous enough to hold firm regardless of the other person's behavior. 

Answer this question...

If you were in need, would the narcissistic person be there for you? Stand your Ground...

Remember This...

.                      Have a wonderful day 😘

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3/6.... Narcissism ... Empathy

Happy New Week Everyone...

       CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY WEEK....

🎶"I wanna thank you Heavenly Father for shining you light on me and giving me your everlating love"... 

                                  Tony Terry 

        Hopefully everyone had a wonderful weekend... 

So, when dealing with a narcissistic partner another trait/behavior that may be displayed is lack of sympathy/empathy. If it is not something that they are experiencing, they really don't care. If you are sick or experiencing tragedy in your family, it means nothing to them. Their only conern is themselves .

If it doesn't benefit them, just know that you are not important. I experienced this once and believe me, it was very hurtful. To actually go through what I went through, it only by the grace of God that I am here with my right mind. It took 7 years for me to realize that the partner I was with was a narcissist. It took me being hospitalized for 7 days due to stress from this person to realize that my health  and my son's health was more important than catering to the needs of someone else.

 So, when I speak on certain topics, its not to only be speaking. My testimonials moments are to hopefully help others identify with maybe similar behaviors, and hopefully shed light in making a conscious decision to do better. If I can reach 1 person, then my labor has not been in vain.

Remember this...

Have a Marvelous Monday... Share yor testimony. You never know who is listening for a way of escape.

......... Don't forget......... CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY WEEK

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

March 2... Narcissism/ They Are Never Wrong...

Greetings Everyone...

🎵" I don't care whose wrong or right, I don't wanna       fight no more...its time for letting go"         

                                  Tina Turner

How many of us know at least one person who (in the eyes) are never wrong. Even if the word truth smacks them in the face and repeatedly say "wrong", they will never admit that they are wrong. Well, I can honestly say that I knew someone like that, and believe, thats a dangerous person.

That's a very dangerous person... The mere fact that they see others as being wrong oppose to them wrong. Its like they have shut the world out and created a world that surrounds only themselves. 

Prime example...

                                      ⚡ Dangerous 

Before they admit/confess that they are wrong, they will develop an attitude with the other person to avoid admitting that they're wrong. And if one is not careful, one could easily question themselves. Again I say, that's a very dangerous person.

Understand 

Learning to accept the fact that we are not above being corrected is a step towards maturity. Everyone living has been/done wrong at some point in there lives. Therefore, we must take into great consideration that as long as we are living in am imperfect world, we are subject to error. And its ok.. Being wrong does not make us bad people, it merely makes us human.

Let us Begin to own up to our mistakes/untruths. Afterall, admittance of wrong doing of our failures is the reason Christ died for our sins. Think about it...

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3/1... Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

Greetings Everyone...

🎵"Celebration time come on. Let's Celebrate"😀

                           Kool and the Gang

It is WONDERFUL WEDNESDAY....

                              CONGRATULATIONS

ON LAST WEEK WE DISCUSSED CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM... DURING THE DISCUSSION, I PURPOSELY USED THE WORD "CORRECTIVE" CRITICISM INSTEAD OF "CONSTRUCTIVE". I DID THIS BECAUSE I WANTED TO SEE IF ANYONE WOULD REALIZE IT AND CORRECT ME WITH THE PROPER WORD. SURE ENOUGH, SOMEONE DID... HOTDOGYAY!!!  THAT NOT ONLY MADE ME HAPPY BUT THE WINNER WAS CONTACTED AND SHE WAS GIVEN A GIFT OF LOVE!!  SHE WAS VERY SUPRISED AND APPRECIATIVE OF THE GIFT....AINT THAT GOOD NEWS... CELEBRATE 🥳🥂 

Are you interested in winning a LOVE GIFT? If so, READ ON...

 Beginning March 8, 2023 , there will be a CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY...  What's a challenge giveway? Its a little fun activity as well as think . Its my way of saying "thank you for your time in reading or watching my channel each day.Your support means so much to me.

 CHALLENGE  GIVEAWAY 

Lisred below is the description 

                               

   Description...

EVERYONE is advised to pay close attention to what is being discussed on the day of CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY I will say these words "Challenge Giveaway Day". This means that at some point during the discussion that day, I may either ask a question or make a incorrect statement etc. You will be contacted via email if you are the winner of the CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

It's just that simple...

Rules

*You are to guess the answer and post it in the comment section via blog...0830letstalk.blogspot.com or via YouTube channel ...

 Lets Talk About It with Valerie...

*Your MUST answer correctly(no compromising)

*Provide only answers pertaining to discussion/question...

         *** Limit 15 words...

*You must be willing to provide your email info

**For contacting you if you are the winner)

***Please don't use multiple contact information.. 

                      Email address only

**** One email per comment (correct answer)

I will respond to you via email if you are the winner of the CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

* You can only win once out of the month

**** You will be notified via email provided if you are  selected as the Challenge Giveaway Winner.

Are you interested? If so, stay tuned to hear the famous words CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY... Have a wonderful Wednesday 😁

***Save the date... Starting March 8 2023

Let's have fun.. Let's think... Let's show love...

Let's play CHALLENGE GIVEAWAY 

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉

2/28... Narcissistic... Hitching Hook

Greetings Everyone...

🎵"ThinkI better let it go... Looks like another love TKO"

                                  Teddy Pendegrass 

Its a new month. Tell God Thank you for allowing us to see to be in the beginning of another month of 2023.

A narcissistic person has many traits. One of the traits is they are only concerned about themselves. Whatever they are involed in, it is never meant to benefit anyone but them. To actually think that they are sincerely genuine is a hoax. Everything they do comes with a hidden agenda with only one person in mind... Them..

One of their hidden agendas is their charming personality. In the beginning mere words can not explain the outpour of charm displayed. It is so much like a dream come true until... Thats what I call the hitching hook. 

Once they have you hitched, it is on from that point on.  

They begin to show the narcissistic side. They only talk about themselves and their accomplishments. They are not concerned about you and whatever joy you may experienced or want to share, because they are not at the least interested in you and anything about you outside of what you can do for them. They are always  me, me, me... Never WE.. This type of relationship is a very disturbing. It can destroy a person's peace.

There are several traits that I will be sharing throughout the week (s).  Please stay tuned

To be continued...

Have a Marvelous Monday...

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2/27... Learning the traits of Narcissistic Person

Greetings Everyone...

🎵"Her pretty smile but she was bad but I didn't know it All I knew eas what I could see... Moma took me to the side and said...Take time to know her...

                             Percy Sledge 

Well, we are approaching the end of another month. Time is really going fast...

So, my son suggested that I discuss Narcissism...

At first I was a little hesitant because I didn't want to offend anyone, but as I thought about it, I agreed to share what I know and maybe help someone begin the process of release and live again... So for the next couple of days(weeks) I will share some signs of a narcissistic person, as well as, my personal experiences I endured being involed a narcissistic relationship.

                                      ............

Some of the traits that Narcissistic People have are self centered, manipulative, never wrong, and the list goes on.

                                  Pay Attention 

Have a wonderful Monday...

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*If negative energy should come your way today, don't debate it, simply look at it and say NOT TODAY as you walk away...and as always Peace and Blessings 😉